Jana and I had a wonderful anniversary this year. We always do. It has become such a tradition among her colleagues where Jana works that they start asking what she's going to do for her anniversary starting in August. To which Jana replies, "I'm not telling ... until after the anniversary."
However, I do know that some of them sometimes get a little disappointed when they learn it isn't a wonderfully extravagant journey to someplace exotic. In fact, this year one of her coworkers asked, "Since you take turns each year don't you try to outdo each other?"
Her answer? "No. It's about the time together."
And that's the point. It's about taking a few days and isolating ourselves from the pressures and worries and interruptions and distractions that constantly pull at our relationship and just focus on being together, whether it's in Oceanside, Oregon, or Kuna, Idaho.
And this year was no different.
Jana came up with the theme of a Multi-Cultural Experience.
I shared in my last post the letter I received Sunday evening. I knew no more about what we were going to be doing after I read the letter than I did before.
Day One of our Multi-Cultural Anniversary
"The Culture of Old World Wealth"
I had been told that we were leaving the house at 10:30 am. Jana had already gassed up the van and once I started up the car she said, "Head for the freeway toward Boise."
I followed directions until we ended up on Warm Springs Ave. We drove up the avenue to a grocery store where we pulled in. We went inside and I was told to buy some treats to keep up my energy. After we got our treats Jana said, "We've always driven up Warm Springs and commented that we'd sure like to someday look at the beautiful mansions. Well, today, we're taking a 'walking tour' of Warm Springs Ave."
Warm Springs is a well-known street in Boise where, a hundred-plus years ago, the affluent built beautiful homes: some very victorian, some more modern. We headed down Warm Springs just walking and looking at the beautiful homes, wandering up side streets – whatever looked interesting. We wandered about 3/4 of a mile, crossed the street and meandered back, taking it all in, talking about the houses, who would live there, what renovations were being made and how much we enjoyed being together.
After two hours we had made it back to our van and were ready for the next "culture".
"Oregon Coast Culture I"
After leaving Warm Springs we headed back to town, got on the freeway and made our way to the Towne Square Mall. We didn't go to the mall, but wandered past it to an industrial/warehouse-looking building with several businesses occupying the space. However, one of the spaces was a little different than the rest of the warehouse occupants. The sign above the entrance read "Idaho Aquarium". I had seen the place before but always assumed, with the large pictures of fish on the wall, that it was a place that sold exotic fish to people with fish tanks. But no, it was an aquarium that displays sea-life.
For a $7 donation we got to see and pet rays, baby sharks (including a hammerhead shark), eels, jellyfish, lionfish and other tropical fish. We got to stare down the free-range iguanas wandering about, laugh at the puffins and watch the chameleons change their colors.
(From Jana: Here's the deal about the Idaho Aquarium. When you walk outside afterwards, you are still in Idaho. Bummer. It puts you in such a mood for the ocean and yet there you stand in the parking lot and nary a seagull to be found. Bummer again. It's sort of like bait & switch.)
Each year, during our anniversary, we buy a Christmas ornament for our hodge-podge of a Christmas tree. I found a small, round refrigerator magnet with a very small starfish on it that I'll drill a hole in, put a ribbon through and add to our collection this Christmas.
"Oregon Coast Culture II"
By now it was after 1:00 so we headed to "Oregon Coast Culture II", McGrath's Fish House. Jana had found a coupon for a reduced price on salmon dinners at McGrath's. However, when we went to order the waiter apologized that the special was over. They had a steak coupon now. So he gave us some more time to go back over the menu to pick our steak special.
Shortly he came running back, breathlessly saying, "Don't order. Don't order." He continued, "I talked to the kitchen and they said you can have the salmon specials, whichever one you want." And so we did.
(From Jana: I figured after looking at fish (aquarium), it was time to eat fish. (However, I draw the line at octopus. I don't like chewing tire tread.) The salmon & halibut at McGrath's was delicious.)
"Indulge-Your-Wife Culture"
Next on our adventure was something just for Jana. She has been looking for a blue blazer to wear for her business wardrobe and had heard of a thrift shop that was supposed to be very good. Over the past two years Jana has learned to love consignment shopping and found that she can really stretch her dollar on buying clothes. We headed for the Boise Assistance League Thrift Shop near the Boise Fairgrounds.
I love shopping for clothes with Jana and picking things I think would look good for her. I take credit for finding the blazer and she ended up plunking down $8. We also looked at jewelry which she has gained more interest in since working.
Before moving on to our next "culture" we saw a consignment furniture store across the parking lot and found two recliners that tempted us sorely to adopt. But we withstood the temptation.
"The Sugar Culture"
Next to the thrift store was a bakery that Jana has heard about for years but has never gone to: Pastry Perfection. Walking in this store puts on 350 calories just smelling the air. We looked and smelled and looked some more, finally each choosing a confection to take with us.
"The Hipster Culture"
Arielle introduced us to the "hipster culture" a couple years ago. The epicenter of the hipster haute couture in Boise is Urban Outfitters in downtown. We parked in a downtown parking garage and started walking downtown toward the 8th Street marketplace area. We had fun looking at downtown and the downtown dwellers as we meandered past the Boise Centre on the Grove and the Century Link Arena. What fun looping in and out of downtown book shops and clothing stores. We found a chocolate confectioner where we could have dropped $27 for 12 bite-sized pieces of chocolate, but we resisted.
It was fun watching workers and a very tall crane building a large tower that will one day be the core of a new high rise building in downtown.
"Mediterranean Culture"
It was now after 6:30 and time for our next cultural adventure. Jana directed me toward the Park Center area of East Boise, looking for an address. We finally found the address attached to a small, hidden eatery call the Mazzah Grill. This restaurant features Mediterranean cuisine with food samplings from Italy, Greece, Turkey, Syria and that region. Jana had, again, found this place online and read good reviews about it.
I had a combo kabob plate including shish kabob, marinated chicken kabob and pork kabob with a Syrian fatoosh salad of tomatoes, cucumbers, onions and a dressing I've never tasted before. Yummy. Jana had the fatoosh salad with a Greek gyro sandwich. We took our time and just talked while we ate.
"International Culture"
After dinner we had one more culture to experience before calling it a day. I was told it wasn't starting until 9:00 pm and it was only 7:50 as we left the restaurant. We headed for home for an hour where I took a 45 minute snooze and then out the door we went.
For our international culture we headed for the Edwards movie theater. Since it was a little later on a Monday evening there wasn't really a line at the window where Jana purchased two tickets to see the "Bourne Legacy". I happen to like the suspense of the the Bourne movie trilogy so Jana took us for this international ride: international because the movie storyline takes you across the globe.
Jana did an amazing job in arranging this evening. When we walked into our theater we were the only two people there. We had the whole movie to ourselves. When we finally got out at nearly midnight we walked out of our theater into the common halls of this 14 theater complex and there wasn't another person in the building. We didn't even see an employee as we walked through theater, past the snack bar and through the main lobby. Jana had the whole movie theater opened just for us. How do you top that?
We dragged ourselves home and collapsed into bed. Jana had told me the day before when she first delivered the letter to me about our anniversary plan that we were going to experience things we had never experienced before. So far she was living up to her promise. We just had so much fun on Day One exploring new things close to home and mostly just walking and talking together.
Day One had truly been a
loving thing. Now, on to Day Two.
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