Jana celebrates the weekend by often staying up late Saturday night and, since our actual church meetings don't start until 1:00 pm, sleeping in. I'll wake her up to have a morning prayer with her, give her a "morning kiss" (no 7-second kisses before 8:00 am) then head out the door.
At church I will generally see her and give her a squeeze between meetings. "Good morning" I'll offer, a quick kiss and then move on.
The pattern is just slightly different on the first Sunday of the month which we call "Fast Sunday" – that would be "Fast" as in no eating after dinner Saturday evening until Sunday evening, not "Fast" as in quick.
Yesterday being Fast Sunday I was hungry by the time I got home but there was purpose behind my fast and there were a number of specific issues on my mind that I was absorbed with. When I got home I went in and gave Jana a hug and told her I was glad to be home. But I didn't linger as I had a number of things yet to follow up on and phone calls that needed to be made before the evening slipped away.
As I was sitting at my desk making calls Jana slipped in.
"I have some salmon thawed. Would you like some?"
That sounded wonderful so I said, yes. About 2o minutes later she came back in.
"Dinner's ready for you on the table."
I finished up and went in and there was a lovely salmon, potato and salad dinner waiting for me. This, I suppose, doesn't sound momentous, but since Jana gets home from church a couple hours before I do we don't have dinner on Sunday evening. When I get home I just fix something light and quick. This was a special expression of love from her, truly a loving thing. It was purely selfless since she had already had dinner a couple hours earlier.
It just felt like such a sweet kindness and I enjoyed every morsel. Kindness is always romantic. Kindness is always a loving thing.
After my dinner I told Jana I had a "home evening" I wanted to prepare. I brought the laptop computer into the bedroom along with my desktop speakers, plugged them in, then we listened for the next two hours to an interview of Dallin Oaks and his wife, Kristen. What fun to just end the evening together.
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